Rod Romney: Gems of wisdom on violence and peace
The following excerpts are from a recent address by Rev. Dr. Rod Romney to an audience at the University of Idaho. To read the full text, go to:
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Jesus said if someone strikes you on one cheek turn to him the other also. By so doing you are not inviting someone to hit you again. You are letting him know that you are basically uninjured and that you refuse to be unfairly treated. You refuse to be either a victim or a victimizer, for you know yourself to be both worthy and lovable. Thus you step out of the circle of fear into the circle of love. The way of love and gratitude is the most difficult choice you will ever make, for it goes against every instinct and against much of what you have been taught to believe. But once you understand that love calls for neither submission nor revolt, just acceptance and hope, then you begin to look for what the way of nonviolent love requires.
Walter Wink, a Christian writer, in his book, "Jesus and Nonviolence," points out the three choices we have in every conflict we face. Fight is where we choose armed revolt, violent rebellion, retaliation and revenge. Flight is the way of submission, passivity, withdrawal and surrender. The third way, which Jesus suggests, is Loving Nonviolence. This way offers a creative alternative to violence. You assert your dignity as a person, you meet the situation with ridicule or humor, you break the cycle of humiliation, and you recognize your own power in being willing to suffer and grow rather than to retaliate and wither. You thereby force your oppressors to see you in a new light by depriving them of a situation where force would be effective. Imagine what would happen if individuals and nations would turn to this third way as a method for settling disputes, instead of killing each other, as we are currently doing in Iraq.
A young man from my church in Seattle said to me once (after I had preached a sermon on nonviolence during the Persian Gulf War), "What you have presented looks impossible; you are advising us to let others run over us and destroy us." "No," I answered, "that's not what I am asking us to do. I am asking us to look for a third way, a way that would transform violence into love and seek a just peace in this world." He replied, "But that would accomplish nothing." To which I answered, "And exactly what does war accomplish, other than the incredible loss of thousands of lives and greater destruction to this planet earth?" He shook his head and walked away.
There has to be another way besides fight or flight. We need dedicated young people to find that way. Wars are usually declared by old men for two purposes: power and profit. Since these old men don't have to fight the wars they declare, they have to be fought by young men and women, who did not create them in the first place, but who are made to believe it is their sacred duty to defend their country.
What if groups of young people in our colleges and universities would covenant together to explore the viability of a third way, the way of nonviolence? Might not a new way then appear that would take us out of the endless shadow of war and away from the position of pro-death that so many in our world seem to embrace. War has now become almost obsolete, especially with the kinds of weapons that have been developed which could obliterate entire nations. If we could devote our time, energy and creative expertise toward building peace and understanding and expressing gratitude and hope, the world we would leave to our children would be a far better and safer place than it is today.
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A few years ago, shortly after I retired, I was
invited to be a guest speaker at a church in Seattle and was given the title: If I Had Only One Sermon to Give. It was the first time since high school days, when I was told to speak on the US constitution and what it means to me, that I had been given the title for a talk I was to give. I found the idea intriguing, but for days I was unable to decide exactly what I would preach about if I had only one sermon to give. Then in the early morning hours, that time when we hover between sleeping and waking, I had a dream that a man came and stood by my bedside and gave me the three points for the sermon. Now we know that dreams are the activity of our subconscious, and we also know that wisdom we have hidden inside ourselves is often revealed in that way. Perhaps it is also a way by which God speaks to us. At any rate, here are the three points that were given to me in that dream.
(1) You are deeply loved and freely forgiven, you always have been and you always will be. (2) You are here primarily to love and to be a caretaker of yourself, of others, and the world. (3) You are one with everything that is. No one is special, because everyone is, and no one is separate because everyone and everything is connected, parts of one great cosmic family. These are the basic truths of life. Live by them and share them, and you will fulfill what you came here to do. Tat Twan Asi.
I have preached several sermons and given a number of talks since then, but I keep returning again and again to those three points. I am grateful they were given to me, and each time I remember them, I am filled with hope. But what about those strange sounding words at the end, Tat Twan Asi?
This _expression, Tat Twan Asi, is found in the Sanskrit, a Hindu sacred writing four thousand years old. It literally translates, "that thou art," and it means, "There is only God, and you are that." You are not the small self you think yourself to be. You are the limitless consciousness that is the truth in all. You are the word of God to the age in which you live. You are God's love, God's justice, God's peace. There is only God, and that thou art.
Many of us have been taught to believe that God is a being outside ourselves who will help us only if we live good and faithful lives. But what if who God is and what God wants to do depends on us, on each one of us? What if there is only as much God in this world as we are willing to express? If we believe that to be true, should we not then live more responsibly, more graciously, more tenderly, and more lovingly to all people, to all creation? Perhaps that is what the kingdom of heaven really means. When people are as loving and forgiving to one another as they want God to be them, perhaps only then will the new world be born that we have all been longing to see.
Meanwhile, as my granddad used to say to us when we lived on the farm, Ya still gotta chop wood and carry water. We still have much work to do. So let us give thanks for what has been. Let us hold in our hearts a bright and imperishable hope for what is yet to be. And let us work tirelessly to be the truth, the love, and the peace of God on this beautiful earth.
[From "Thanks for What Has Been; Hope for What Will Be," by Rev. Dr. Rodney R. Romney, delivered at University of Idaho 75th Anniversary of Christian Student Center, Moscow, Idaho; September 17, 2005]
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