[+] 'Tis the Season to Be Fair and Equitable to All (excerpt)
by The Rev. Dale Turner
Our duty is to believe that for which we have sufficient evidence and to suspend our judgment when we have not.
Unfortunately, it is easy for each one of us to fall into the trap of making sweeping judgments on important issues when we have not fully researched the facts. Winston Churchill once said, "There are those who occasionally stumble over the whole truth, but they get up, brush themselves off, and go on as though nothing had happened." We can all be entrapped into an acceptance of conclusions that are not fully documented.
A case in point: During this Christmas season, the "innkeeper" will again be maligned by thousands who will call him cold, heartless, callous and uncaring. The innkeeper who had no room for Mary and Joseph on a cold Christmas Eve is one of the villains of the Christmas story.
But how do we know that?
There is nothing to document such a conclusion. He could well have been a loving husband and a kindly father and a fair and honorable hotel manager trying to do his work in the best way he knew how. All the evidence we have is that he simply said that his inn was full.
If there was no room, what would we have expected him to do? Should he have evicted one of the tenants who already had a reservation?
Isn't it true that at least he or someone else found shelter for Joseph and Mary, crude as a stable might have seemed? The innkeeper could well have been the provider of shelter, and perhaps for free. Who knows?
"You dear people," he might have said, "you are terribly tired. You've traveled a long way. It is obvious that your child is soon to be born, and you need rest. Although no room is available in the inn, I will not turn you away into the darkness. I will provide shelter for you that is warm and reasonably comfortable, but I will not charge you for it. Come with me."
If we are inclined to blame someone, why is it the innkeeper? How about Joseph? Why did he not send word by one who was able to travel at greater speed who could make a reservation for him?
Why did he not start earlier, knowing that his trip would require more time?
There are many unanswered questions relating to the incident. How easy it is to believe the worst about another when that person is maligned or criticized before learning all that needs to be known.
We now stand 2000 years removed from the scene, trying to make a judgment when we do not know all that was involved. Maybe after all of these centuries it is time to repent of superficial judgments and join in shouting, "Let's hear it for the innkeeper."
One of the most memorable and to the point "sermons" I can recall was given by a Major League Baseball umpire at a sports banquet I attended. He said he was always amazed how spectators 300 feet up in the stands felt they could call balls and strikes more accurately than he who was immediately behind home plate.
It has been my observation that those most generous and merciful in judging the faults of others are those who are most free from faults themselves. They know, too, that judgment made at one time may not be valid at another.
George Bernard Shaw said, "My tailor is the only sensible person I know. He takes my measure anew every time he sees me, while all the rest go on expecting all the old measurements to fit me."
Not only love but justice entails the persistent habit of looking for the good and true, as well as what may be evil or false. A verse from the pen of an unknown author is worth remembering:
"Trust not each accusing tongue
As most weak persons do,
But first believe that story wrong
That ought not be true."
[ Copyright © 2003 The Seattle Times Company - Thanks to Sky Jubilee for forwarding this article.]
